Finding Inner Peace with 9 Calming Strategies

Da-Nel Euwings
3 min readMar 18, 2021
Starting a small indoor or outdoor garden has many healthy benefits.

Finding inner peace nowadays is a significant challenge. In our attempts to understand and navigate through the ever-changing global scene, many scenarios and interactions feel like an obstacle to experiencing peace of mind. But there are ways to find and maintain inner peace. Inner peace is a choice, and many of your habits determine how much peace you experience in your daily life.

Experience inner peace and enjoy life on a deeper, more satisfying level:

1. Focus your attention on those things you can control. Why worry about those things you can’t control? It sours your mood and makes you less capable.

· Literally ask yourself, “Is this something I can control? Will worrying be beneficial in any way?”

2. Spend time in nature. Take a long walk in the park, creating and tending to your indoor or outdoor garden, or spend a weekend camping. You’ll feel dramatically different compared to sitting in a concrete building 24 hours every day. There’s something peaceful about spending time among the birds and the trees.

3. Be true to yourself. Few things are more disconcerting than living a life you weren’t meant to live. It continuously gnaws away at you. Live a life that’s congruent with your values and with where you currently are in your personal journey.

· It’s too easy to allow society dictate your choices. You don’t have to spend your life on a career that’s impressive to others. You don’t have to chase after accessories, labels or possessions that don’t meet your goals for your business or personal budget. Make your own decisions about what’s most important to you.

4. Eat nutritiously. You might not realize how bad you feel because you’re so used to it. Try eating the way you know you should for just a week. Note the change in how you feel.

· Now try eating some junk food and see what happens to your mood and your overall sense of well-being. You’ll feel like you’ve been run over by truck.

5. Exercise regularly. Have you ever noticed how great you feel as you’re walking out of the gym or completed a workout at home (or even at your office desk)? Exercise feels good, and you feel good about yourself for doing it.

6. Do something nice for someone else. This is a great way to take your focus off of yourself. You become more aware that others are struggling, too. When you are kind, you receive kindness in return. You’ll also feel a sense of pride and satisfaction when you help someone else.

7. Be assertive. Be open and forward with your needs and desires. You’re not only more likely to get what you want, but you’ll also feel more in control of your life. Being passive results in having less control, which runs counter to inner peace. Be bold without being aggressive.

8. Meditate. Meditation is calming. It also helps to see life and its challenges more accurately. Things are often better than they seem. Meditation can prevent your mind from making a situation seem worse than it really is. There are many free apps and videos for beginners and with varying methods, philosophies, and lengths.

9. Avoid trying to change others. You’ll have as much success trying to change the weather. It’s hard enough to change yourself. How will you ever manage to change someone else?

It’s important to take care of yourself mentally and physically. Eat properly, exercise, and be true to yourself. Be assertive and take control of your life. All the accomplishments in the world can’t replace inner peace. Avoid chasing after those things that society has determined to be important. Decide for yourself and live the life you were meant to live.

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Da-Nel Euwings

Savors good Scotch Whiskeys, writing and reading books, bellyaching laughter, rewatching Hamilton, and random acts of kindness. #slayingyourfears #selfhelp